When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.

Live your life as if every moment was a gift and celebrate that it has been given to you.

I choose to accept rather than expect!

I upgrade my consciousness to be Always Growing.

I am present! Right here, Right now!

Don't ask yourself what the world needs; ask yourself what makes you come alive, and then do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive. — Harold Whitman

Problems cannot be solved at the same level of awareness that created them. — Albert Einstein

The more fun you have, the greater your value to yourself and to your society. The more fun you share with others, the more fun you have. 

the Oaqui

The victim complains with a blaming voice,
Making excuses, weaving story after story.
The victor sees clearly and makes a choice,
Being authentic, he lives in full glory.  
S. Bauer

 I involve my family and seek to create fun-fun for everyone.

Afraid of Structure

Have you had the experience of confusion about what action to take?

Recently, I have been feeling that way. There have been times in my life when I have been very structured. Why am I currently struggling with it? Upon reflection I became aware of a few things.

The structure I had in the past was overly rigid. I would become frustrated and upset with myself if I couldn’t keep precisely to what was written down. Being overly structured, left little flexibility for life's spontaneous occurrences and therefore it was not as sustainable. After a few months of this, I just couldn't take it anymore and would go to the other extreme of not scheduling anything. This method, in turn, left room for “creativity” didn’t help me create the results I wanted to manifest, in my life.

How many times had I done this in my life? After reflecting, I noticed this had become a recurring pattern.

As I’ve mentioned again and again, awareness is the first step of change.

I noticed that neither extreme was working for me. Now, that I noticed what wasn't working the key was to become clear on what I wanted to create.

What called to me was to create “structured sustainable balance”.

That sounds fancy, but what does it mean? To me, this means, setting up a scheduled balanced structure that includes the different important areas of my life (family, health, exercise, spiritual practice, work) allowing room for spontaneity, as well.

The challenge I have been coming up against is the fear of going to the extremes, again. I see the flip-flopping I've done and wish to end the cycle .

So,where to begin?

I’ve chosen to first start by creating a support system for myself. As a coach I know well the benefits of having support and accountability. With support I can see if I am being too rigid or hard on myself when it doesn't turn out the way I planned. Some of the things I’m incorporating into my life are developing courage and taking action in spite of the fear and creating daily habits, such as taking 10 minutes a day to focus on what is important to me.

I invite your support. If you have experienced something similar, how have you managed it?

What has worked for you to get beyond a fear or something that has “stopped” you from living life fully?

How do you schedule your life?

Taking one step at a time,

Bhagavan

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